Okay, so I’ve been getting really into tarot lately. It’s been surprisingly helpful for self-reflection, you know? Today, I decided to focus on my love life, or lack thereof, haha. I pulled out my deck and focused on the “Two of Wands” card because I saw it mentioned in a forum. It’s supposed to be about choices and planning, which I definitely need some help with.
Getting Started
First, I cleared my space. Lit a little incense, put on some chill music. Gotta have the right vibes, right? Then I shuffled my deck while thinking about my question: “What direction should I take in my love life?” I’m not looking for a specific name or anything, just some guidance.
The Reading
- I laid out the cards in a simple three-card spread: Past, Present, Future.
- The Two of Wands ended up in the Present position. Interesting…
- I took some deep breaths. I can get a bit nervous at times, don’t want to overthink!
- I looked at my interpertation book, and it was talking about a crossroads, about having potential but needing to make a solid plan.
My Interpretation
Seeing the Two of Wands in the present position really hit home. I realized I’ve been waiting for something to happen instead of actively pursuing what I want. I have all these ideas about the kind of relationship I want, but I haven’t been putting myself out there.
So, I grabbed my journal. I like writting my thoughts down, helps me think it through!
I started brainstorming. No judgment, just free-flowing ideas. Should I try online dating again? Maybe join a hiking group? That one dating APP I saw a couple of months back?
Taking Action
After journaling, I felt a lot clearer. I decided to take one small step. The one I chose for today? To update my old, dusty dating profile. Baby steps, people! I spent about an hour rewriting it, picking out some new photos. It felt good! It felt like I was actually doing something.
It might not seem like much, but pulling that Two of Wands card and actually thinking about it, then doing something about it felt pretty empowering. I’m still not sure what the future holds, but at least I feel like I’m moving in some direction, instead of just standing still. We’ll see what happens next!
