Okay, so I’ve been getting into tarot lately, and I wanted to try something called “romance tarot.” I’d seen it all over my social media, promising insights into love and relationships. Sounds cheesy, I know, but I was curious. So, here’s how it went down.
Getting Started
First, I grabbed my tarot deck. It’s a pretty standard Rider-Waite deck I picked up online. Nothing fancy, but it does the job. Then, I found a quiet spot in my apartment, lit a candle (because, why not?), and tried to clear my head. I’m not gonna lie, I felt a little silly at first.
The Spread
I decided to go with a simple three-card spread. I’d seen this one recommended for beginners online, and it seemed easy enough. The idea is that one card represents the past, one represents the present, and one represents the future of your romantic situation. So, I shuffled the deck, really focusing on my question – basically, “What’s up with my love life?” – and then I laid out the three cards face down.
The Reading
Time to flip them over! Here’s what I got:
- Past: The Lovers. Okay, this was interesting. It could mean a past significant relationship, or a major choice I made about love. I thought back, and yeah, there was definitely a relationship that had a big impact on me, even though it ended a while ago.
- Present: The Five of Cups. This one’s a bummer. It usually represents loss, regret, and focusing on the negative. Honestly, it kind of resonated. I’ve been feeling a bit down about being single and dwelling on past rejections.
- Future: The Ace of Cups. This is a much more positive card! It signifies new beginnings, emotional fulfillment, and the potential for a new relationship. I felt a little flicker of hope. Maybe things aren’t so bleak after all.
My Takeaway
So, what did I learn from this little experiment? Well, the Five of Cups in the present position really hit home. It made me realize I’ve been stuck in a negative mindset. The Ace of Cups for the future was encouraging, but I know it’s not a guarantee. It’s more like a sign that I need to be open to new possibilities and shift my perspective. I think I like this card a lot. I think I might just be more optimistic in the future. I should try to be more open to this.
Overall, it was a fun and surprisingly insightful experience. It’s not like the cards magically told me who I’m going to marry, but they did help me reflect on my own feelings and attitudes about love. I’ll probably try this again sometime, maybe with a different spread. Who knows, maybe romance tarot will become my new favorite hobby!
