Okay, so the other day I was feeling a bit lost about this whole dating thing, you know? So, I thought, why not try a 5-card tarot spread for love? I’ve dabbled in tarot before, just for fun, but never really for anything serious.
First, I cleared my space. I lit a candle, put on some chill music – the whole nine yards. I wanted to make sure the vibes were right. Then, I shuffled my deck, really focusing on my question: “What’s going on in my love life, and where is it headed?”
The Card Layout
I laid out the cards like this:
- Card 1: Me in the current situation.
- Card 2: What I desire in love.
- Card 3: Obstacles in my path.
- Card 4: What will help me.
- Card 5: Potential outcome.
I won’t bore you with what every single card means, because, honestly, tarot’s kind of personal, right? But I’ll tell you the gist.
The first card was about me being kind of stuck in my ways. I got a image of me just being, like, super comfortable in my routine, but maybe a bit too comfortable. It was a “Hey, wake up!” kind of card.
The “desire” card? That one showed me I’m craving a real connection, something deep, not just casual flings. I was nodding my head, like, “Yep, tarot, you get me.”
The “obstacle” card was a tricky one. It was a visual representation of my fear of getting hurt again. Been there, done that, don’t want the t-shirt, you know? It made total sense, though.
The card that was supposed to “help” me? It was all about self-love and inner work. I groaned a little. Because it’s the answer, I’ve been get for all my question. More meditation, more journaling. Ugh. The universe is always telling me to do the hard work, I know, I know.
Finally, the “outcome” card. It wasn’t a fairy-tale ending, which, honestly, I appreciated. It was more like, “You’re on the right path, keep going, and you’ll find a fulfilling connection, but it will take time and effort.” So, basically, no magic wand, just…life. I am suprised about what I got. But I think It’s worth a try.
Overall, it wasn’t some earth-shattering revelation. But the 5-card tarot spread for love did give me some clarity. It reminded me to get out of my comfort zone, face my fears, and keep working on myself. And, honestly, that’s pretty solid advice, tarot or no tarot.
