Alright, so you wanna know if he’s the one, huh? Like, the real deal, the one you’re gonna be stuck with, for better or worse, like they say. Okay, okay, I get it. We ain’t got time for fancy talk, let’s get down to brass tacks, you know? We gonna figure this out, using them… them picture cards. The Tarot, they call ‘em.
Now, I ain’t no fancy city slicker, but I know a thing or two about people. And these cards, well, they can kinda show you what’s goin’ on inside a fella’s head, and maybe even what’s comin’ down the road. Don’t go thinkin’ it’s magic, though. It ain’t like lookin’ into a crystal ball, you hear? It’s more like… like lookin’ at a puzzle, and the cards give you the pieces. You gotta put ‘em together yourself.
So, first thing, we gotta figure out what’s happenin’ right now. The cards, they’re good for that. They show you the “now,” you know? Like, how he’s feelin’ about you today, not next year or nothin’. They can kinda tell you what’s he’s hidin’, the stuff he ain’t sayin’ out loud. That’s important, see? ‘Cause men, they ain’t always the best at tellin’ you how they feel.
- Card One: You. This card shows you, right now. How you feelin’? All lovey-dovey, or maybe a little unsure? It matters, you know? ‘Cause if you ain’t right with yourself, how you gonna be right with someone else? Like that “Love Me” card they talk about. Gotta love yourself first, that’s what my mama always said.
- Card Two: Him. This is about him, what he’s thinkin’ and feelin’ deep down. Is he smilin’ on the outside but frownin’ on the inside? The cards can show you that. We gotta see if his heart’s in the right place.
- Card Three: The Relationship. This is the big one. This card shows what’s between you two. Is it sunshine and roses, or is it thorns and weeds? We gotta be honest here, even if it ain’t pretty.
Okay, so we got them three cards laid out. Now we gotta look at ‘em, really look at ‘em. Don’t just glance and move on. What do you see? What do you feel? Sometimes it ain’t about the fancy names they give the cards, it’s about what they make you feel in your gut.
Let’s say you get a card with a bunch of happy people on it, like that Sun card. That’s good, real good. Means things are lookin’ up, things are gonna be positive. Maybe you get that Lovers card too. That’s a real strong sign, that is. Means true love, a real partnership. And if you see that Empress card, well, that could mean babies! A whole family, maybe. Or maybe just a lot of good things comin’ your way, like a big harvest, you know?
But what if you get some cards that don’t look so good? Like, maybe you get one that looks kinda sad and lonely. That don’t mean it’s over, but it does mean you gotta pay attention. Maybe he’s got some baggage, some stuff he’s carryin’ around. Or maybe you two ain’t on the same page, you know? And that Hierophant card? Well, that one could mean marriage, but it could also mean you’re stuck in your ways, too traditional maybe.
Now, some folks say these cards can tell you the future, but I ain’t so sure about that. I reckon it’s more about seein’ the possibilities. Like, if you see a storm comin’, you can prepare for it, right? You can get your umbrella and your boots ready. It’s the same with these cards. They show you what might be comin’, so you can decide what you wanna do about it.
And listen, don’t go lettin’ these cards rule your life. If your gut tells you somethin’ different, listen to your gut. These cards, they’re just a tool, you know? Like a hammer or a shovel. They can help you build somethin’ good, or they can help you dig yourself a hole. It all depends on how you use ‘em.
And remember, feelings matter. If you’re all worked up, stressed out like a hen in a fox house, the cards might pick up on that. It’s like lookin’ in a mirror, but the mirror’s showin’ your insides, not your outsides. So, try to be calm, try to be open. And don’t go askin’ the same question over and over again, hoping for a different answer. The cards, they’ll tell you what you need to hear, not necessarily what you wanna hear.
And one last thing. There ain’t no guarantees in life, especially when it comes to love. You can shuffle them cards all day long, but in the end, you gotta make your own choices. You gotta trust your heart, even if it scares you a little. ‘Cause that’s what love is all about, takin’ a chance, jumpin’ in with both feet, even when you don’t know where you’re gonna land. And remember, no matter what them cards say, nobody can tell you for sure if he’s “the one”. That’s somethin’ you gotta figure out for yourself, deep down in your heart. Good luck, child.
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