Alright, let me tell you about my little adventure with the Lovers card from Biddy Tarot the other day. I wasn’t looking for anything specific, just shuffling through my deck, feeling a bit stuck, you know? So, I pull up Biddy Tarot on my phone, ’cause their explanations are usually pretty straightforward, none of that super mystical talk you sometimes get.
And there it was – The Lovers. My first thought? Oh boy, here we go, relationship drama incoming. Honestly, that’s the last thing I needed. But I scrolled down Biddy’s page anyway. They mentioned stuff about choices, big decisions, values lining up, not just the whole soulmate thing. That got me thinking a bit differently.
Trying it Out
So, I decided, okay, let’s lean into this. I didn’t do a big fancy spread or anything. Just kept the idea of the Lovers card, specifically the ‘choice’ and ‘values’ part Biddy talked about, in my mind for the day. Like a little experiment, see if it clicks with anything going on.
It wasn’t long before something came up. Typical stuff, really. Had this situation pop up where I had to decide between two paths. One was the easy way out, less work for me, less confrontation. The other way? Way harder. Meant difficult conversations, more effort, but deep down, it felt more… aligned? Like, more honest with what I actually believe is right, not just convenient.
I actually stopped and thought about that card. Seriously paused. Not like asking the card for an answer, but using it as a nudge. Which path felt like a real connection, not just a quick fix? Which one matched my own values, like Biddy’s site mentioned?
- Path 1: Easy, quick, avoids immediate hassle.
- Path 2: Harder, needs more work, feels more ‘right’.
Thinking about the Lovers card, not as romance, but as this symbol of clear-eyed choice and union with your own principles, weirdly helped. It pushed me to look beyond the surface level convenience.
I ended up picking the harder path. Man, it was a headache initially. No lie. But afterwards? Felt solid. Like I made a choice, a real one, not just reacted. It wasn’t magic, just a different way to frame the decision in my head, prompted by looking up that card on Biddy Tarot.
So yeah, that was my practical run-in with the Lovers card this time. Less about destiny finding ‘the one’, more about figuring out which ‘one’ choice felt true to me in that moment. Simple as that, really. Just using the card as a mental checkpoint. Worked for me that day.
