Alright, so I wanted to try out this reconciliation tarot spread I’d heard about. It’s supposed to help you figure out where things stand with someone you’ve had a falling out with, you know? I’ve been having some issues with a friend, and I thought, why not give it a shot? Maybe the cards could shed some light on the situation.
First, I got myself in the right headspace. I lit some candles, put on some chill music, and just took a few deep breaths to calm my nerves. Then, I grabbed my tarot deck – it’s this beautiful, old deck that I’ve had for years. I shuffled the cards while thinking about my friend and the issues we’ve been having. I really tried to focus my energy on the situation.
Once I felt like the cards were properly shuffled, I laid them out in the reconciliation spread pattern. It’s a pretty simple spread, just five cards in a cross shape.
- The first card represents the past – what led to the conflict.
- The second card is the present – the current state of the relationship.
- The third one is the other person’s perspective.
- The fourth card is what I need to do, like, my role in resolving things.
- And the last card is the potential outcome if we actually try to reconcile.
I flipped over the first card, and it was the Five of Swords. Kind of a bummer, right? It usually means conflict and disagreement, which, yeah, that tracks. We definitely had a big fight. Then, the second card, the present, was the Two of Cups reversed. That suggests a broken connection and miscommunication. Again, pretty accurate. We haven’t really been talking much since the fight.
The third card, representing my friend’s perspective, was the Knight of Cups. This one was interesting. It suggests that they might be feeling emotional and maybe even a little regretful. It gave me a bit of hope, to be honest. Maybe they’re not as mad as I thought.
For the fourth card, what I need to do, I got the Ace of Pentacles. This card usually represents new beginnings and opportunities. I think it means I should be the one to reach out and offer an olive branch, you know? Start fresh.
Finally, the potential outcome card was The Sun. Such a positive card! It suggests happiness, success, and clarity. So, maybe, just maybe, if we both put in the effort, we can actually fix this and come out of it stronger.
Overall, this tarot reading was super insightful. It wasn’t just some mumbo jumbo. It really helped me see the situation from a different perspective and gave me some ideas on how to move forward. I’m actually feeling a lot more hopeful about reconciling with my friend now. I think I’m gonna reach out to them soon. I just needed to let them know that I am sorry and I miss them. Wish me luck!
