Hey everyone, it’s your guy back again with another one of my little experiments. Today’s topic is a bit out there, even for me, but hey, that’s what makes life interesting, right? We’re diving into the world of tarot, specifically focusing on the Tower card in the context of love. Yeah, I know, sounds kinda nuts, but stick with me here.

So, I got this whole thing started a few weeks ago. I was feeling all kinds of messed up about this girl, you know how it is. Couldn’t tell if she was into me or just being nice. One night, I was up late, scrolling through some random stuff online, and I stumbled upon this tarot reading website. I was like, “What the heck, let’s see what the cards have to say.” I’m not really into this stuff normally, but desperation does weird things to a guy.
I did a few readings, and the Tower card kept popping up. At first, I was like, “Great, just my luck.” I mean, the card basically shows a tower being struck by lightning and people falling out. Not exactly the image of a budding romance, you feel me?
I started digging into what this Tower card actually meant. Seems like it’s all about sudden changes, upheaval, and stuff you don’t expect. In love readings, it usually means a breakup, some big fight, or finding out something that totally shakes your world. Not gonna lie, I started freaking out a bit. I was thinking, “Is this thing trying to tell me she’s gonna cheat on me or something?” That was last week, Jan 6, 2025, I was reading about the Tower upright, indicating that it is about sudden change and upheaval.
But then, I kept reading, and it wasn’t all doom and gloom. Some folks say the Tower can be a good thing, like a necessary change to get rid of something that’s not working. It’s like, the universe is shaking things up so you can build something better. I started thinking maybe it wasn’t about her at all. Maybe it was about me and my messed-up ideas about love and relationships. Maybe my love life was actually a mess that needed to be broken apart.
I took a break from the tarot stuff for a few days and just thought about things. I realized I was always chasing after girls who weren’t really right for me, and I was ignoring some major red flags. Maybe the Tower was telling me to wake up and smell the coffee. That was on Sep 23, 2024. I was doing a general reading on my relationship, and it seemed to be indicating that things were going to change.

So, yesterday, I decided to do another reading, but this time with a different mindset. Instead of asking about her feelings, I asked about what I needed to change in myself to have a better love life. Guess what card showed up again? Yep, the Tower. But this time, it felt different. It felt like an invitation, not a threat.
I still don’t know what’s gonna happen with this girl, and honestly, I’m kind of okay with that for now. The Tower has got me thinking about bigger things, like how I approach relationships and what I really want. It’s like, I gotta tear down my own messed-up tower before I can build something solid.
My Takeaway
- It ain’t always about the other person. Sometimes the biggest changes gotta happen inside us.
- Change can be scary as hell, but it’s not always bad. Sometimes you gotta break stuff to build something better.
- Tarot is weird, man. But hey, it got me thinking, and that’s something.
Alright, that’s my tarot adventure for now. Maybe I’ll do an update later, who knows. Let me know if any of you have had crazy experiences with tarot or if you think I’m just losing it. Peace out!