Okay, so I’ve been seeing this guy, and things are… well, they’re something. I wanted to get a little clarity on where his head’s at, so I decided to do a “His Feelings for Me” tarot spread. I’m no expert, but I enjoy the ritual and find it can be surprisingly insightful. Let’s walk through what happened.
First, I grabbed my trusty deck. I’ve had this one for years, and it just feels right in my hands. I spent a few minutes shuffling, just kind of focusing my energy and thinking about him and the situation. I like to really connect with the cards, you know?
Setting the Mood
I lit a candle – just a plain white one, nothing fancy – and put on some chill background music. It helps me get in the right headspace. It’s not about being super serious or mystical, but more about creating a quiet space for reflection.
The Spread
Then, I laid out the cards in the spread I found online. It was a simple five-card spread:
- Card 1: His overall feelings for me.
- Card 2: What he wants from this relationship.
- Card 3: His fears or hesitations.
- Card 4: The likely direction of the relationship.
- Card 5: Advice for me.
My Reading
I flipped over the cards one by one, taking my time to really look at each one and see what popped out at me.
I remember for the First Card I got “The Lovers” that was so direct to me, I jotted down my initial thoughts in my notebook, you know, before I started overthinking it.
- For the “overall feelings” card, I pulled the Three of Cups. This felt pretty good! It’s all about friendship, celebration, and joy. It suggested that he enjoys my company and sees me as someone he can have fun with.
- The “what he wants” card was the Knight of Wands. This one’s a bit more fiery. It suggested he’s attracted to me and wants adventure, but maybe isn’t ready for anything super serious yet.
- His “fears or hesitations” card was a little tricky. The Seven of Swords, So, maybe, I thought maybe there’s some hidden conflict or some deception.
I kept pulling the cards and jotting down notes. It’s important to do that in process, I think. Then continue to the 4th and 5th, I can’t quite remember what those two card were.
Putting It All Together
After I had all the cards down, I spent some time just looking at the whole picture. It wasn’t a perfect, crystal-clear answer (it rarely is!), but it gave me some things to think about. It seemed like he’s definitely interested and enjoys spending time with me, but there might be some things holding him back from going all-in. The advice card felt like it was telling me to be patient and not push things too hard.
Honestly, the whole process was more about me getting in touch with my own intuition than getting a definitive answer from the cards. But it helped me sort through my feelings and feel a little more grounded. I’ll probably do another spread in a few weeks, just to see if anything has shifted!
