Okay, so, I’ve been thinking a lot about love lately, and I decided to turn to my tarot cards for a little guidance. I’m no expert, but I find that tarot readings can offer some interesting perspectives and help me reflect on my feelings and situations. So, I wanted to share my little experiment with you all today.

Getting Started
First off, I cleared my space and made it feel cozy. I lit a candle, put on some chill music, and just sat quietly for a few minutes to get in the right headspace. Then, I shuffled my deck while focusing on the general theme of love and relationships. I didn’t have specific questions in mind at first, just wanted to see what the cards would bring up.
The Questions Emerge
As I was shuffling, some questions started to pop into my head, so I decided to roll with it. Here are a few that I felt were worth exploring:
- “What energy should I be embracing in my love life right now?” – I figured this was a good starting point. Like, what’s the overall vibe I should be going for?
- “What’s blocking me from finding the love I desire?” – Because, let’s be real, sometimes we’re our own worst enemies. I thought maybe the cards could shed some light on any self-sabotage I might be engaging in.
- “What do I need to know about my current relationship (or potential relationship)?” – This one felt a bit more specific, but I was curious to see what the cards would reveal about any particular situation I had in mind.
Pulling the Cards and Interpreting
For each question, I pulled three cards and laid them out in a simple spread. Now, I’m not going to bore you with the details of every single card I pulled, but I’ll share some highlights. When I asked about the energy I should embrace, I got a lot of cards that suggested focusing on self-love, nurturing myself, and being open to new experiences. It was like the cards were saying, “Hey, you do you first, and the rest will follow.”
When I asked about what’s blocking me, the cards pointed towards some fears and insecurities I’ve been holding onto. It was a bit of a wake-up call, but also kind of empowering. Like, okay, I see you, cards, and I hear what you’re saying. Recognizing those blocks is the first step to overcoming them, right?
And for the question about a specific relationship, the cards brought up some interesting insights about communication and the need for balance. It wasn’t all sunshine and rainbows, but it gave me some food for thought and areas to focus on.

Reflecting and Taking Action
After the reading, I spent some time journaling about the cards I pulled and the messages I received. It was a really helpful way to process everything and figure out how to apply it to my life. It’s not like the cards magically solved all my love problems, but they definitely gave me a fresh perspective and some things to think about.
Overall, it was a really positive experience. I feel like I have a better understanding of myself and my approach to love. The next step for me is to actually take action based on what I learned. Maybe that means working on my self-confidence, being more open to new possibilities, or having some honest conversations in my relationships. Who knows? But I’m feeling more optimistic and empowered to create the love life I desire.
So, yeah, that’s my little tarot experiment. If you’re into this kind of thing, I encourage you to give it a try. You might be surprised by what you discover!